Load balancing plays an important role in parallel numerical simulations. State-of-the-art libraries addressing this problem base on vertex exchange heuristics that are embedded in a multilevel scheme. However, these are hard to parallelize due to their sequential nature. Furthermore, libraries like Metis and Jostle focus on a small edge-cut and cannot obey constraints like connectivity and straight partition boundaries, which are important for some numerical solvers. In this paper we present an alternative approach to balance the load in parallel adaptive finite element simulations. We compute a distribution that is based on solutions of linear equations. Integrated into a learning framework, we obtain a heuristic that contains a high degree of parallelism and computes well shaped connected partitions. Furthermore, our experiments indicate that we can find solutions that are comparable to those of the two state-of-the-art libraries Metis and Jostle also regarding the classic metrics like edge-cut and boundary length.